Wow. I had no idea you were this sick. You were a great friend to many people. Thank you for everything that you did. You will be dearly missed. My prayers to Karen and the family.
You were my dear friend, confidant, and big brother all rolled into one. I spent some of the best times of my life with you, and we managed to stick together through our share of sorrows as well, didn’t we?
Lots of people never have a friend as dear and generous and full of fun as you, so I am grateful for that blessing. You even gave me another wonderful person to count as a dear friend — Karen and I have a bond for life now.
I’m a better and richer person for having known you Brad, and I miss you terribly.
What I remember most is your unique sense of humor, your gentle heart, and your subtle playfullness –okay maybe being an instigator is a better word.
It was incredible to see the transformation of how Karen filled your heart.
I know your waiting for all of us at The Celestial Bar. Have one for me! Love Ya’
For the rest of us left behind.
Don’t dismay at farewells, for you must say goodbye before we can meet again. And meeting again is certain for those of us who are truly friends - whether it be in minutes or lifetimes.
Illusions
“May we continue this dance of life throughout lifetimes,
so that we may know each other more deeply.
Through that knowing, we shall experience the grace of body,
the peace of mind, the love of heart, and the embodiment of spirit.
By that knowing , whe shall be One with the Divine.”
In the Shadow of the Sphere
Twenty three years of friendship, and I can still remember the first like it was yesterday. I feel so honored to be able to call you my dear friend. We went through so much together… both good and bad, and yet we remained true, great friends to the end. Life just won’t be the same without you in it.
You were one of the first people I met when I came to work here at BAE. Your kindness made me feel I had definitely chosen the right place to work. Your efforts to help me feel settled here during those first weeks are still greatly appreciated.
What amazed me however, was to run into you nearly a year later and you immediately remembered me, called me by name and asked me how I was doing. Thank you for being such an incredibly thoughtful person. You will always be fondly remembered.
Brad was one of the first people I met when I came to work for GDE Systems about 10 years ago. As a hiring recruiter he was very friendly and truly interested in people. I realized after working around him that this was who he was all of the time. Brad was always warm and genuine. He was a great mentor and example to us all. My heart and prayers go out to you Karen!
Brad, you’re being missed as you and I had many discussions the past couple of years about new hires and current employees and their security clearance status. You were a pleasure to work with, mild mannered, thorough and very thoughtful. Cannot recall you ever raising your voice or having a bad day. Two great character traits for anyone. Our thoughts are with Karen and all your immediate and extended family. God blessed you for all your kindnesses. Til we meet again.
Brad was my first functional supervisor when I started GDE Systems. He was a good friend and he made sure that those of us who came to GDE Systems from General Dynamics got credit for their years served at GD when considerations for promotions came around.
One afternoon, Brad, Esther Deem and I went to Del Mar to watch the races. Brad decided early on that “4″ was his lucky number and started betting on 4, no matter what. After losing race after race, Esther and I started inching away from him because we didn’t want that bad luck rubbing off on us. By the time we were through, we were so far away we had to yell at him to say anything! He may have been unlucky at the races, but he was lucky in life — he had so many friends that loved him dearly and a beautiful wife by his side.
I met Brad when we both worked at GD back in the 1980’s. I recruited for the dept he was in and we would go to jobfairs throughout the country. I occasionally would run into him at other jobfairs when he moved over to GDE/BAE, etc and I worked at a variety of different companies. Brad, never changed, he is the same person today as he was then. Easy to talk with, friendly, considerate and kind.
To his family, my condolenses in losing him for a short while. But look forward to the future when you will meet with him again. Brad is paving the way for you. You are all in my prayers as is Brad
A real shock to many of us. Brad was first and foremost a gentleman and a friend. Will always remember his calm, easy manner under the most trying of circumstances. He will be missed.
Thank you Brad for your friendship, your guidance, and the opportunity to work with you.
Now he has departed from this strange world a little ahead of me. That signifies nothing. For us believing physicists the distinction between past, present, and future is only a stubbornly persistent illusion. ~Albert Einstein~
A few years ago, when I needed donations of blood for an operation, Brad was a willing volunteer. In talking with him afterward, Brad described the pre-screening interview. The question came up, “What is your relationship to the person for whom you are donating?” Brad replied, “Why, he’s my partner”. Brad was known for his wonderful sense of humor.
… Later, during one of the BAE holiday dinner dances, I cut in on his date and started dancing with my “partner”, Brad. He was embarrassed (so it was worth it).
… Later, later, when word got out that Brad and Karen were about to get married, I commented to him that “the partner is always the last to know”. He was amused.
Brad was a good person and a good friend. I miss him.
My deep condolences to Karen, to his family, and to his many friends for our loss
Karen was so fortunate to have Bradford in her life, and subsequently, the Johnson family was blessed as well. We will always remember the fun times–Christmas celebrations, baseball games, evening out at the Renegade for some Southbound Jonny and buttery nipples. And when I meet you in heaven (at least I hope I make it) I’ll sing “God Bless America” in my tenor voice just for you!
We love you, Brad.
Many thanks for all you taught me: how to be thoughtful and considerate, how to be kind to others, how to calmly and patiently tackle any problem - however nasty it may be, and most of all, how to stay positive and keep smiling. (Oh well, I guess I still need to work on the last lesson!)
Brad was a person you always wanted on your team. Personally, he provided so much support to me when times were tough — he immediately volunteered when I solicited for blood donations when my husband, Jim, was very ill. In fact, he proudly told me that he and Jim were “blood brothers”. Brad and I also worked on a number of proposals together. Because I worked in proposal production and he was known as “Mr. Cross-Matrix”, we always ended up working under alot of stress to make the final delivery. No matter how stressful the situation, Brad always lightened the mood and made me and everyone else feel so much better. My deepest condolences to Karen, Ryan, his family, and all his many friends.
Brad, thanks for all those years passing me company “inside info (e.g. raise pool amounts)” until people caught on that you couldn’t keep a secret and stopped telling you stuff.
I have such great memories of you as my friend: all the losing softball teams we were on, the post game happy hours, being part of my bachelor party in Vegas, and the time you got heat exhaustion hiking to the bottom of the Grand Canyon because you “forgot” to drink water in 100+ degree heat (but hey that was Brad being Brad - and he did make it back up on his own).
You are the most positive person I’ve known and always willing to help. We should all be a little more like you. I’ll really miss you but keep passing me info from above, I’ll be listening.
We first want Karen to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this, your most difficult time. We pray that Brads spirit will comfort you and remind you that his love will always be a part of you.
When I think of Brad I immediately see his warm and welcoming smile. One of several gifts that Brad possessed was that he made everyone that met him feel as if you were his friend. His laughter and sense of humor would make you forget all about that bad mood you had once been in. You knew after talking to him that somehow your day was going to be so much better. You simply couldn’t walk away from Brad without laughing.
Our lives are much fuller for knowing Brad and what a really genuine, fun loving person that he was.
I met Brad 22 yrs ago during the old GD days. I saw him on and off across the years; he’s never changed (quite the character) and always had that charming positive attitude.
Whenever I’ve had a task on the 6th floor, I made an effort to pop in and say hello; he always made it a better day.
He made it look so easy to be balance a good work ethic , be honest, pleasant, and have a deep sense of integrity.
I think Brad left a positive mark on more people than we will ever know…
I met Brad only a couple of years ago. He helped me transition, not only from one business organization to another, but also helped me transition across different functional organizations. I was quite anxious about the big change ahead of me, but his calm and comforting attitude really made this an extremely smooth and easy transition for me. I’ll always remember his kind, thoughtful and pleasant manner and really funny interactions we had during this time.
I’m very thankful for your friendship and will miss you.
My heartfelt condolences to Karen and rest of Brad’s family.
I miss Brad very much. I had the privilege of knowing him for 15 years or so. He was always smiling and ready with a kind word. He was consistently considerate, unselfish, and really knew how to enjoy the great gift of life. I thank Jesus for allowing me to know him and learn from his example. As a cancer survivor, I have had a small taste of the pain and difficulty that it causes families. I never heard Brad complain, even once. Having known him, challenges me to be a better person and accept the trials that God sends my way. I trust that Brad is having an awesome time in heaven and I take great comfort in that.
Hello from a long lost friend from the old General Dynamics/GDE days.
I’m very sorry to hear of this and my condolences go out to the family.
I have very very fond memories of working with Brad, For a few years he was my boss. Had some really fun memories, he and I had some good laughs. Also Brad helped me during some stressful times, like the time Brad saved my butt when I was running a research project(IRAD).
If a man’s worth is measured by if he left the world a better place, then Brad did good cause he certainly had a lasting positive impact on me of which I am thankful. I really really mean it. Thank you Brad.
I’ll remember Brad for being such a kind person at BAE Systems. He was so considerate whenever we talked. As others have said, he always seemed to be smiling no matter the circumstance, & always took the time to greet & ask after me whenever we met in the hallways. I had hoped his absence was only temporary when he had to take off work due to his illness. We’ll really miss him. My sincere condolences to Brad’s family. I know how difficult it has been this past year & wish you all the best. Thanks, Brad, for being a friend, for being there when we needed you, & for the opportunity you gave us to work with such a great person!
One thing that stands out in my mind about Brad is his smile and upbeat attitude. Everytime I would pass him in the halls or see him by the elevators, he always took the time to smile, say hi, and ask how things are going. We were blessed to have a co-worker and friend like Brad in our lives.
I remember Brad always with a smile and genuine warmth. Always happy! It sounds like he was able to share his joy of life with Karen … I am glad he met you!!! I enjoyed looking at the photos … Brad … always enjoying life and sharing with other. Love to Karen and your family … Sincerely Robyn
Brad was a good friend. I may have known him a little longer than some. I met Brad when he was a LCDR in the Navy and one of my students in a course I was teaching for McDonnell Douglas on how to fly cruise missiles through enemy defenses. He stood out from all the rest because of his friendly, easy going, positive, get the job done, nature. As a Naval Officer he was a little bit like the fictional character named Harmon Rabb in the TV series JAG; clean cut, dashing, impressive. I considered it a real plus that our company (GD) was able to hire him when he left the Navy. All those who knew him felt the same. “Brad Betz is getting out of the Navy — let’s hire him”. Fortunately things worked out that way and our relationship was continued. If I were asked to do a word association to the name, Brad Betz, my word would be “Positive.” Brad will be missed.
Brad, You were always there, no matter how difficult, how time consuming the task may be you could always be counted upon. Always there with your smile, your characteristic demeanor of calmness, we are all better off for having you there. You will be missed.
Brad, you were always so charming, genuine, thoughtful, easy-going, and happy-go-lucky…..just a joy to be around. I’m so grateful and glad I got to know you for the short time we lived in San Diego. Thank you for checking in with us every once and awhile after we moved to Texas….I’m sorry we never made it out to SD after you met Karen so that we could meet her and get to spend some time with you and our old group of friends….I was really looking forward to our next trip out to SD so we’d be able to get the old group together and see you again. You will definitely be missed by us all.
Our condolences to Karen & Brad’s circle of friends and family.
Brad, I’m sorry I won’t be there with the rest of your many friends and family to formally say goodbye, but you know I’ll be there in spirit. I thank you for your friendship, your gentle caring and positive attitude, and your dry wit with the penchant for posing questions that sometimes caught us off guard.
I recall the competitive game nights, international dinners and your refusal to let me retire gracefully from the softball field. My favorite moment was the opening game of the inaugural Tony Gwynn Invitational, where we sat and watched Michigan vs. USD — or was it Oregon State vs. SDSU? — it doesn’t matter, we were there for the baseball, and we spent a good part of the afternoon sharing military flying stories.
As your smile was ever present, the thought of it makes me smile now too. My deepest sympathy to Karen, your family and friends, but as Tom says, no doubt we will see you at the Celestial Bar. Have some of those wicked Cosmopolitans and dirty martinis waiting, dear friend.
Brad, You were the impish little brother I wish I had. Even though you were older than I, you were younger at heart and full of life. You always had a smile, joy and happiness to share, whether working on a proposal, shipwrecked on Trinity Lake, freezing on a snow mobile, sweating on a mountain bike, or rescuing a dehydrated hiker on the Havasupai Trail. My heart goes out to Karen and the rest of your family, as well as the many friends who will no longer be able to enjoy your wit and humor.
Fair winds, following seas, y vaya con Dios mi amigo, we will all miss you dearly.
I was sorry to her about the death of your father. I have very fond memories of earlier times in Va. Beach, where both of our military families had relocated. Your dad cut a dashing figure as the prototypical hardened fighter jock. In later years I learned more of the caring father who was deeply interested in yours and your friends’ lives as we grew up and branched out. I hope your memories of him sustain you and provide solace as you each cope with your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you this Thursday as you lay him to rest.
I came to know Brad through baseball . . by playing for the Padre Fantasy Camp Alumni team. What a great time we had. Brad could play any position, but I especially enjoyed the times when he would catch and I would pitch. He always had a big smile on his face, whether I hit the glove or not, and his smile was radiant when he got a hit! I regret that I couldn’t make the November tournament at Lake Elsinore, but I will cherish the memory of all the games we played together, and the dinners with our wives and our friends the Davis’. I hope that his memory lives long after our short time together, through trying to raise money for cancer research in his name at baseball tournaments, or other means. I am saddened to lose a wonderful friend. We love you Karen.
I too, came to know Brad (Bradford, NOT Bradley as he quietly corrected me) through playing with the Padre Fantasy Camp Alumni team. Brad never cared what position he played. He was, as anyone on our team was, just happy to be IN the game. He was like a kid in a candy store when he was with us between the white lines. Although he couldn’t play in the November tournament, he was out there coaching one of the bases every inning of both games that day. Watching him deal with what he was dealt caused me to admire the man even more. Brad - you’re gone, but you’ll never be forgotten. Karen, you and all of Brad’s family will always be a part of our family. We will miss you brother.
My fellow catching buddy! Brad was always there when the Padre FC Team needed him. His big smile kept the dugout and the game always enjoyable. I am so glad he was able to come to Lake Elsinore in November. All my aches and pains from catching every game went away as soon as I saw the huge smile come into the dugout. Brad was a great teammate and an even greater person. I will really miss you Brad.
He asked about how ones family was, not to show that he cared, he asked BECAUSE he cared! I honestly can not picture Brad without a smile and caring heart. Honestly, I don’t know why he hung around us Padres because he was so much better than us…except Ed.
Brad was a wonderful human being who we be dearly missed. God certainly took the best Padre first.
brad,Brad, Brad… I am saddened to here we won’t be in the same line up again anytime soon. we did have are day in the sun though. Like so many of us have written, you had a way to touch the heart n soul of those whom you met. I have to admit , I, like so many am a victim of your contagious smile. your endless spirit, and your true meaning of FRIEND,and TEAM MATE. Karren thank you for shareing one of the best humans I ever met. evan if it was only for a few hours at a time. Brad, may we tie up are cleets and walk the fields of fresh cut grass while the sun warms are backs… can’t wait to meet your new team manager, put in a good word for me, I can still hit!! Your friend…DAN
Whenever I think of Brad I just have to smile. I loved his wacky sense of humor and how he could always make everyone laugh. I have missed our international dinners and old game nights but am comforted in knowing Brad is waiting for us at the Celestial Bar ready to make those killer cosmopolitans. I have been blessed by knowing Brad and will always be grateful for the times we all had together. My love and support are with Karen and Brad’s family.
I knew Brad when he and I were in Attack Squadron 34 on the USS John F Kennedy. Brad was without a doubt an officer and gentleman. Everyone in the squadron loved Brad’s humor, friendship and hard work. He was always taking the tough flights and did a great job. He was a very easy going aviator that everyone wanted next to him in the cockpit or on your wing. As a naval aviator he exhibited professionalism, leadership and teamwork. The nicest guy I met in the Navy…Lee
Karen, I was terribly saddened to hear of Brad’s passing. I always knew Brad as the calm in any storm. Easy going, ready to listen, and always willing to help. I valued his friendship and counsel from the first day we met and I feel honored to have known him. He will be deeply missed…and always remembered.
I am very sorry to hear of Brads passing. I was a squadron mate of Brads in VA 34 in the early 70’s and I remember Brad as a good friend as well as a good shipmate. He was truly a professional Naval officer. I was on Geroge O’Briens and Brads wing in the Med when their plane had difficulties and George and Brad had to eject after their plane lost control and flipped up right overhead on my plane. Thankfully they missed my plane on ejection and we had many stories to tell after that experience. Although I had not seen Brad since the VA 34 days I had hoped to connect with him at a Intruder reunion at some point. My sincere sympathy to his family.
We have all lost a very dear friend. We have known Brad and his family since 1967 when we were with VA 145 in Whidbey Island . One of the most joyous moments of our relationship with Brad was meeting you and knowing that Brad had found so much happiness with you and that you were a part of the Betz clan. He was truly one of the warmest people we have ever met and we felt the same way about you as soon as we met you. He always made us feel that he was so happy to see us and the feeling was mutual. Brad was not a person who wore his faith on his sleeve, but he lived his faith in the way that he treated others. We are deeply sorry, Karen, that the two of you could not have had more time together but it is such a comfort to know that you shared a good life. The memories that you do have are treasures that time cannot erase. We pray that through this time of sadness and journey of grief that you will feel comfort in every thought and prayer that we are sending your way.
Brad’s actions spoke louder than words and that was the subtle power of the Man. He did not have to say much, his actions and how he treated everyone who crossed his path spoke volume after volume.
Without realizing it in the moment, all of our lives were forever changed by each encounter with this man. His quiet disposition, his hearty laughter, his incredible intellect, his infectious hugs, his genuine sincerity, his deep commitment to family and friends, his intense loyalty to our nation, and his class.
At the heart, Brad was a servant. He served his country, he served his wife, he served his children, and he served his friends. He was strong and yet humble.
We will all dearly miss Brad because of all that he represented, and all that he meant to us. We have been left with an incredible gift from Brad, memories. Memories of how to live each day as if it was our last. He left a legacy and he left it for each of us to carry on from where he left off.
So my question to you is, “How did Brad Betz influence you for the better and how can you live the remainder of your days to influence others?”
Brad, we will deeply miss you and we love you so much. Thank you for being the man that you were and what you represented. We all have been so richly blessed to have known you, been able to call you Father, Husband, or Friend.
“Praise GOD from whom all blessings flow, praise Him all creatures here below, praise Him above the Heavenly host. Praise Father, Son, and Holy Ghost. Amen”
Brad, Susan and I will think about you often. I know Susan will miss you dearly. Karen, I can’t imagine what you are feeling but now that we are thinking of you.
Brad’s memory will live on every time I meet someone who is genuinely friendly and helpful. I will try better to follow his example. Until we meet again, Brad.
Brad was the reason I returned to BAE Systems 12 years ago. He always stayed in touch with me when I left the company and when the travel load of my new job became too much, it was Brad who reminded me of the importance of being available to my then very young family. He then proceeded to tell me about this “Opportunity” that he knew about, I applied and got the job and what an opportunity it was. I had the pleasure of working with Brad in recent months and his level of continuous enthusiasm and willingness to work (even between therapy sessions) serves as such a motivator for me. My husband and I will both miss Brad but know that we will see him again.
What joy it was to work and socialize with Brad. He always had a smile and a positive spin on life. I usually make a Ode to folks who retire, so below is one for Brad. Enjoy!
An Ode to Brad Betz
19 February 2009
There once was a Navy man named Brad
Who moved up the ranks and flying a tad,
In the 80’s he decided to retire,
And GD was looking to hire,
And survived the GD thru BAE good time and bad.
Now Brad was an engineer,
Who enthusiastically shared his Navy experience without fear,
He enjoyed mission planning design,
As a software and systems engineer, he was fine,
And was always a team player when a party was near!
There once was a Staffing Manager named Brad,
Who helped engineers be good and slightly bad,
He showed ways to grow their careers,
And could even arrange fun with the peers,
His calming, joyful presence will be missed a large tad!
Brad had his outside interests,
He loved playing baseball with few stops or rests,
He was an avid Padre fan,
And went to several games, not get a tan,
Exercise, love and fun: His secret to looking younger than his guests!
We all loved the dude named Brad,
He was always happy, joyful, never mad,
He enjoyed talking and being with all type of folks,
And loved his family, dogs and laughed at our bad jokes,
Showing us to live life to its fullest and be glad!
I did not know you well. We would meet occasionally at family functions. You were always such a good listener. Always sensitive to others and kind.
I believe I know you better through your children. They reflect your many positive atributes.
I know your son and my son-in-law Brad the best, and see in him, his father’s caring and loving nature.
Goodby for now and hope to see you again!!!
The bond between flight crews and aircraft maintenance personnel on the roof is especially strong and cannot be otherwise when battle hardened veterans trust their aircraft and lives to sailors barely old enough to drive the family car. It is a bond one must experience to understand.
For those of us young sailors known as Troubleshooters that pushed and launched pilots and B/Ns off the pointy end, we shared a bond greater than most.
As a member of the Intruder Association I was truly saddened to learn that Mr Betz made the final cut.
I served with him in VA/34 aboard USS John F Kennedy CV-67 CVW1 from 1975 to 1979.
I strapped him in on many occasions, kicked the tires with him more times than I can count, carried his gear to the aircraft and safety checked and launched his plane dozens of times in some of the most horrible weather imaginable.
It is said that an officer wears his rank on his shoulders as he bears unmatched responsibility in time of conflict, while enlisted men wear their rank on their sleeve as they are the muscle, and somewhere in between is where mutual admiration and respect for each other are earned.
We troubleshooters cared not for how many degrees from what universities a pilot or B/N had. As anyone that has performed that ballet on that stage known as a flight deck will tell you it all came down to credibility and respect, not expected because of rank but earned and not so readily.
I wish you all to know that well after these many years, I still have many fond memories of Mr. Betz. He always had a smile for us, and always had praise for those of us that spent may hours in a very grueling, dangerous and inhospitable atmosphere. But more than anything else he had credibility, and our utmost respect , not just as a Naval Officer but as a man. For his charges to admire and respect him that much is testimony to his character, and you must take me at my word, he was one of the best.
Having known Mr. Betz personally many years ago, and sharing that aforementioned bond, I know there is a hole in the world. I reach across the country from my home outside of Boston, Ma with heart felt condolences.
Sincerely
Robert J. Ascolillo, Jr. AE2 , USNR
Line Division Troubeshooter and Aircraft Final Checker
Attack Squadron 34 1975-79
No words of wisdom, only love and friendship (1971) for Brad and his faimly. Brad had a great sence of humor and an infectous smile…..he always made you feel happy! We have spent so much time reflecting on the days spent with Brad…..basketball with VA-34, traveling in Europe,a boat trip to the British Virgins Islands, and trips to our cabin in Oregon where Brad and Ron had their karaoke sessions, playing bridge and evening boat rides on the lake. To the Betz children…..no bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. May you each find peace in knowing that your father “won” is prize with the Lord. Blessings, Sally and Ron
I know of noone who had a greater influence in my life, outside of family, than Brad. He was everything you could ask for in a friend–honest, fun-loving, care-free, happy! I remember the time he picked me up to go with him to an “undisclosed” destination. He had a large satchel, secured with a lock, around his wrist. He could not open nor remove it until he reached this destination where someone had a key to remove it. It was straight out of the best spy movie you could imagine. But to Brad, it was all in a day’s work. I will miss him!
Dear Brad,
Just found out today you were in a better place after enduring the pains of your illness. You left all of us in a better place for having known you. Since I left San Diego in March of 2008, I have prayed for you, Karen and your friends and family. I bet your service was full of love and you shone down on those present. I remember the first day I met you at GDE/BAE in 1997. I was in Labor Accounting. My job was to work with supervisors and to collect the time cards each week to verify each employee’s hours. You (Mr. Supervisor) always greeted me with a smile and always had kind words. I was happy to be sitting on the 6th floor near you when I joined the ranks of the engineering dept. You had an uplifting way about you that spilled out to those around. I remember groups of folks meeting up at the E-Bar after work every once in a while. It’s where I got to know you socially. You always empressed me as a kind and gentle soul. After looking at the pictures and reading some of the notes I see and hear that I am not alone in thinking so.
Dearest Karen,
Your love for Brad and his for you was so evident and so wonderful to see. It is something you have in your heart for eternity. I reach across the miles from NH to CA to give you hugs. Please know I think of you often.
Just found out that Brad had passed from this earth into the presence of his Heavenly Father and wanted you to know how truly generous he was. My wife, Lisa (formerly Parham), first met him as she was raising her financial support to be a missionary in Venezeula. Brad joyfully contributed to her ministry and then continued when we got married and she joined me with Athletes in Action. He allowed us to stay in the ministry full time sharing the love and forgiveness of Jesus Christ here in the US and many other countries.
He was always so positive when I spoke with him and always so generous. We thank God for the legacy that he left us and the many lives touched because of his support!
Brad lived out this verse in the Bible written by Paul so many years ago: “Christ shall even now, as always, be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death. For to me, to live is Christ, and to die is gain.” Philippians 1:20b-21
I cannot believe that a year has passed since you started your next journey. I still have to remind myself that you will not be there at the door to great me when I arrive home with a welcoming smile, a big hug and sometimes a cosmo.
I miss you so much and wish I had that one more moment to tell you how much I love you and how thankful I am to have had you in my life. You were my friend, my love, my soul mate and you will be in my heart forever BBB.
Wow, seems like now we were talking about the Padres and getting ready for the new season about now. I know your in a much better place. Since you have left, the Padres were sold, traded Jake and half the team for rookies. Looks like a good year for them Dodgers.
Miss you Brad!
xoxx
Brad’s character meant that a 2-hour encounter in 1976 would have me curious about reaching him nearly 35 years later. He was patient and warm to this adolescent who met him at the Champaign, IL airport where he had flown his A-6 with Gary Ruzeau. Within minutes he had me ready to forget about flying a fighter someday and being ready to be an NFO on an A-6. A couple of times we exchanged letters, and in tribute to the box of cookies I sent him and his crony on the Kennedy, he sent me a Blues Blaster’s patch that I have to this day. I am glad that I got to meet him for that little time. God Bless.
You are greatly missed! Little Joseph had his very first Little League T-Ball practice yesterday. You would be proud the way he swings the bat. And he will be a faster runner than I ever was. The girls are growing up fast. Austin is in Air Force boot camp right now and of course Noah just turned 19 years old 3 days ago. Dad, I want you to know that your Legacy lives on. The kind, gentle, and affectionate man you were transcends through me to my children. I know they feel loved and secure because the way you treated me is what they are seeing in me and experiencing for themselves. So often I wish I had your listening ear. You were always ready to listen. Simply put – you were the most amazing Dad! The only little bit of comfort I have is that I stand on the promises of the Word of God that I will see you in Heaven one day. Sylvia misses you, too! Work is going well…got another promotion. Thank the Lord! Life is precious and life is short. It has been said that children are the only earthly treasure you can take to Heaven. I hope and pray that I can make impact on my kids as you did on yours. Bye for now….Love you and miss you so much, Bruce.
Hello Dad!
Wow! Another year has flown by. I think of you so often. Of course with today being the 3rd anniversary of your passing, you are heavy on my heart. I often see that gentle smile of yours. That easy going way about you. You had that gift of being able to talk to anyone and putting them at ease. Your sense of humor and your wit is certainly missed. Thanks Dad for being the Dad who was one of my very best friends on earth. I sometimes wonder if we will be able to play catch in Heaven. I sure miss playing ball with you. It makes it all the more special to play ball with my kids. Well, once again, know that you are dearly missed. I love you so much! Bruce
February 5th, 2009 at 8:03 am
Wow. I had no idea you were this sick. You were a great friend to many people. Thank you for everything that you did. You will be dearly missed. My prayers to Karen and the family.
February 7th, 2009 at 4:23 pm
Bradford …
You were my dear friend, confidant, and big brother all rolled into one. I spent some of the best times of my life with you, and we managed to stick together through our share of sorrows as well, didn’t we?
Lots of people never have a friend as dear and generous and full of fun as you, so I am grateful for that blessing. You even gave me another wonderful person to count as a dear friend — Karen and I have a bond for life now.
I’m a better and richer person for having known you Brad, and I miss you terribly.
I love you.
Pam
February 9th, 2009 at 12:40 pm
Brad,
What I remember most is your unique sense of humor, your gentle heart, and your subtle playfullness –okay maybe being an instigator is a better word.
It was incredible to see the transformation of how Karen filled your heart.
I know your waiting for all of us at The Celestial Bar. Have one for me! Love Ya’
For the rest of us left behind.
Don’t dismay at farewells, for you must say goodbye before we can meet again. And meeting again is certain for those of us who are truly friends - whether it be in minutes or lifetimes.
Illusions
“May we continue this dance of life throughout lifetimes,
so that we may know each other more deeply.
Through that knowing, we shall experience the grace of body,
the peace of mind, the love of heart, and the embodiment of spirit.
By that knowing , whe shall be One with the Divine.”
In the Shadow of the Sphere
February 9th, 2009 at 12:48 pm
Brad,
Twenty three years of friendship, and I can still remember the first like it was yesterday. I feel so honored to be able to call you my dear friend. We went through so much together… both good and bad, and yet we remained true, great friends to the end. Life just won’t be the same without you in it.
I’ll see you in heaven,
LOVE!!
Sharon
February 9th, 2009 at 1:03 pm
You were one of the first people I met when I came to work here at BAE. Your kindness made me feel I had definitely chosen the right place to work. Your efforts to help me feel settled here during those first weeks are still greatly appreciated.
What amazed me however, was to run into you nearly a year later and you immediately remembered me, called me by name and asked me how I was doing. Thank you for being such an incredibly thoughtful person. You will always be fondly remembered.
February 9th, 2009 at 1:14 pm
Brad was one of the first people I met when I came to work for GDE Systems about 10 years ago. As a hiring recruiter he was very friendly and truly interested in people. I realized after working around him that this was who he was all of the time. Brad was always warm and genuine. He was a great mentor and example to us all. My heart and prayers go out to you Karen!
February 9th, 2009 at 1:41 pm
Brad, you’re being missed as you and I had many discussions the past couple of years about new hires and current employees and their security clearance status. You were a pleasure to work with, mild mannered, thorough and very thoughtful. Cannot recall you ever raising your voice or having a bad day. Two great character traits for anyone. Our thoughts are with Karen and all your immediate and extended family. God blessed you for all your kindnesses. Til we meet again.
February 9th, 2009 at 2:11 pm
Brad was my first functional supervisor when I started GDE Systems. He was a good friend and he made sure that those of us who came to GDE Systems from General Dynamics got credit for their years served at GD when considerations for promotions came around.
One afternoon, Brad, Esther Deem and I went to Del Mar to watch the races. Brad decided early on that “4″ was his lucky number and started betting on 4, no matter what. After losing race after race, Esther and I started inching away from him because we didn’t want that bad luck rubbing off on us. By the time we were through, we were so far away we had to yell at him to say anything! He may have been unlucky at the races, but he was lucky in life — he had so many friends that loved him dearly and a beautiful wife by his side.
February 9th, 2009 at 2:30 pm
I met Brad when we both worked at GD back in the 1980’s. I recruited for the dept he was in and we would go to jobfairs throughout the country. I occasionally would run into him at other jobfairs when he moved over to GDE/BAE, etc and I worked at a variety of different companies. Brad, never changed, he is the same person today as he was then. Easy to talk with, friendly, considerate and kind.
To his family, my condolenses in losing him for a short while. But look forward to the future when you will meet with him again. Brad is paving the way for you. You are all in my prayers as is Brad
February 9th, 2009 at 2:39 pm
A real shock to many of us. Brad was first and foremost a gentleman and a friend. Will always remember his calm, easy manner under the most trying of circumstances. He will be missed.
February 9th, 2009 at 2:58 pm
Thank you Brad for your friendship, your guidance, and the opportunity to work with you.
Now he has departed from this strange world a little ahead of me. That signifies nothing. For us believing physicists the distinction between past, present, and future is only a stubbornly persistent illusion. ~Albert Einstein~
February 9th, 2009 at 5:37 pm
A few years ago, when I needed donations of blood for an operation, Brad was a willing volunteer. In talking with him afterward, Brad described the pre-screening interview. The question came up, “What is your relationship to the person for whom you are donating?” Brad replied, “Why, he’s my partner”. Brad was known for his wonderful sense of humor.
… Later, during one of the BAE holiday dinner dances, I cut in on his date and started dancing with my “partner”, Brad. He was embarrassed (so it was worth it).
… Later, later, when word got out that Brad and Karen were about to get married, I commented to him that “the partner is always the last to know”. He was amused.
Brad was a good person and a good friend. I miss him.
My deep condolences to Karen, to his family, and to his many friends for our loss
February 9th, 2009 at 7:44 pm
Karen was so fortunate to have Bradford in her life, and subsequently, the Johnson family was blessed as well. We will always remember the fun times–Christmas celebrations, baseball games, evening out at the Renegade for some Southbound Jonny and buttery nipples. And when I meet you in heaven (at least I hope I make it) I’ll sing “God Bless America” in my tenor voice just for you!
We love you, Brad.
February 9th, 2009 at 9:00 pm
Brad,
Many thanks for all you taught me: how to be thoughtful and considerate, how to be kind to others, how to calmly and patiently tackle any problem - however nasty it may be, and most of all, how to stay positive and keep smiling. (Oh well, I guess I still need to work on the last lesson!)
Indeed, we will miss you. We ALL miss you!
February 9th, 2009 at 11:28 pm
Brad was a person you always wanted on your team. Personally, he provided so much support to me when times were tough — he immediately volunteered when I solicited for blood donations when my husband, Jim, was very ill. In fact, he proudly told me that he and Jim were “blood brothers”. Brad and I also worked on a number of proposals together. Because I worked in proposal production and he was known as “Mr. Cross-Matrix”, we always ended up working under alot of stress to make the final delivery. No matter how stressful the situation, Brad always lightened the mood and made me and everyone else feel so much better. My deepest condolences to Karen, Ryan, his family, and all his many friends.
February 10th, 2009 at 6:52 am
Brad, thanks for all those years passing me company “inside info (e.g. raise pool amounts)” until people caught on that you couldn’t keep a secret and stopped telling you stuff.
I have such great memories of you as my friend: all the losing softball teams we were on, the post game happy hours, being part of my bachelor party in Vegas, and the time you got heat exhaustion hiking to the bottom of the Grand Canyon because you “forgot” to drink water in 100+ degree heat (but hey that was Brad being Brad - and he did make it back up on his own).
You are the most positive person I’ve known and always willing to help. We should all be a little more like you. I’ll really miss you but keep passing me info from above, I’ll be listening.
February 10th, 2009 at 9:17 am
We first want Karen to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this, your most difficult time. We pray that Brads spirit will comfort you and remind you that his love will always be a part of you.
When I think of Brad I immediately see his warm and welcoming smile. One of several gifts that Brad possessed was that he made everyone that met him feel as if you were his friend. His laughter and sense of humor would make you forget all about that bad mood you had once been in. You knew after talking to him that somehow your day was going to be so much better. You simply couldn’t walk away from Brad without laughing.
Our lives are much fuller for knowing Brad and what a really genuine, fun loving person that he was.
February 10th, 2009 at 10:31 am
I met Brad 22 yrs ago during the old GD days. I saw him on and off across the years; he’s never changed (quite the character) and always had that charming positive attitude.
Whenever I’ve had a task on the 6th floor, I made an effort to pop in and say hello; he always made it a better day.
He made it look so easy to be balance a good work ethic , be honest, pleasant, and have a deep sense of integrity.
I think Brad left a positive mark on more people than we will ever know…
February 10th, 2009 at 4:40 pm
I met Brad only a couple of years ago. He helped me transition, not only from one business organization to another, but also helped me transition across different functional organizations. I was quite anxious about the big change ahead of me, but his calm and comforting attitude really made this an extremely smooth and easy transition for me. I’ll always remember his kind, thoughtful and pleasant manner and really funny interactions we had during this time.
I’m very thankful for your friendship and will miss you.
My heartfelt condolences to Karen and rest of Brad’s family.
February 10th, 2009 at 10:56 pm
I miss Brad very much. I had the privilege of knowing him for 15 years or so. He was always smiling and ready with a kind word. He was consistently considerate, unselfish, and really knew how to enjoy the great gift of life. I thank Jesus for allowing me to know him and learn from his example. As a cancer survivor, I have had a small taste of the pain and difficulty that it causes families. I never heard Brad complain, even once. Having known him, challenges me to be a better person and accept the trials that God sends my way. I trust that Brad is having an awesome time in heaven and I take great comfort in that.
February 12th, 2009 at 9:39 am
Hello from a long lost friend from the old General Dynamics/GDE days.
I’m very sorry to hear of this and my condolences go out to the family.
I have very very fond memories of working with Brad, For a few years he was my boss. Had some really fun memories, he and I had some good laughs. Also Brad helped me during some stressful times, like the time Brad saved my butt when I was running a research project(IRAD).
If a man’s worth is measured by if he left the world a better place, then Brad did good cause he certainly had a lasting positive impact on me of which I am thankful. I really really mean it. Thank you Brad.
February 12th, 2009 at 12:14 pm
I’ll remember Brad for being such a kind person at BAE Systems. He was so considerate whenever we talked. As others have said, he always seemed to be smiling no matter the circumstance, & always took the time to greet & ask after me whenever we met in the hallways. I had hoped his absence was only temporary when he had to take off work due to his illness. We’ll really miss him. My sincere condolences to Brad’s family. I know how difficult it has been this past year & wish you all the best. Thanks, Brad, for being a friend, for being there when we needed you, & for the opportunity you gave us to work with such a great person!
February 12th, 2009 at 2:06 pm
One thing that stands out in my mind about Brad is his smile and upbeat attitude. Everytime I would pass him in the halls or see him by the elevators, he always took the time to smile, say hi, and ask how things are going. We were blessed to have a co-worker and friend like Brad in our lives.
February 12th, 2009 at 3:11 pm
I remember Brad always with a smile and genuine warmth. Always happy! It sounds like he was able to share his joy of life with Karen … I am glad he met you!!! I enjoyed looking at the photos … Brad … always enjoying life and sharing with other. Love to Karen and your family … Sincerely Robyn
February 12th, 2009 at 5:09 pm
Brad was a good friend. I may have known him a little longer than some. I met Brad when he was a LCDR in the Navy and one of my students in a course I was teaching for McDonnell Douglas on how to fly cruise missiles through enemy defenses. He stood out from all the rest because of his friendly, easy going, positive, get the job done, nature. As a Naval Officer he was a little bit like the fictional character named Harmon Rabb in the TV series JAG; clean cut, dashing, impressive. I considered it a real plus that our company (GD) was able to hire him when he left the Navy. All those who knew him felt the same. “Brad Betz is getting out of the Navy — let’s hire him”. Fortunately things worked out that way and our relationship was continued. If I were asked to do a word association to the name, Brad Betz, my word would be “Positive.” Brad will be missed.
February 13th, 2009 at 1:07 pm
Brad, You were always there, no matter how difficult, how time consuming the task may be you could always be counted upon. Always there with your smile, your characteristic demeanor of calmness, we are all better off for having you there. You will be missed.
February 15th, 2009 at 10:31 pm
Brad, you were always so charming, genuine, thoughtful, easy-going, and happy-go-lucky…..just a joy to be around. I’m so grateful and glad I got to know you for the short time we lived in San Diego. Thank you for checking in with us every once and awhile after we moved to Texas….I’m sorry we never made it out to SD after you met Karen so that we could meet her and get to spend some time with you and our old group of friends….I was really looking forward to our next trip out to SD so we’d be able to get the old group together and see you again. You will definitely be missed by us all.
Our condolences to Karen & Brad’s circle of friends and family.
February 16th, 2009 at 9:04 am
Brad, I’m sorry I won’t be there with the rest of your many friends and family to formally say goodbye, but you know I’ll be there in spirit. I thank you for your friendship, your gentle caring and positive attitude, and your dry wit with the penchant for posing questions that sometimes caught us off guard.
I recall the competitive game nights, international dinners and your refusal to let me retire gracefully from the softball field. My favorite moment was the opening game of the inaugural Tony Gwynn Invitational, where we sat and watched Michigan vs. USD — or was it Oregon State vs. SDSU? — it doesn’t matter, we were there for the baseball, and we spent a good part of the afternoon sharing military flying stories.
As your smile was ever present, the thought of it makes me smile now too. My deepest sympathy to Karen, your family and friends, but as Tom says, no doubt we will see you at the Celestial Bar. Have some of those wicked Cosmopolitans and dirty martinis waiting, dear friend.
February 16th, 2009 at 6:09 pm
Brad, You were the impish little brother I wish I had. Even though you were older than I, you were younger at heart and full of life. You always had a smile, joy and happiness to share, whether working on a proposal, shipwrecked on Trinity Lake, freezing on a snow mobile, sweating on a mountain bike, or rescuing a dehydrated hiker on the Havasupai Trail. My heart goes out to Karen and the rest of your family, as well as the many friends who will no longer be able to enjoy your wit and humor.
Fair winds, following seas, y vaya con Dios mi amigo, we will all miss you dearly.
February 17th, 2009 at 12:39 pm
Bruce, Brad, Bennett and Beverly:
I was sorry to her about the death of your father. I have very fond memories of earlier times in Va. Beach, where both of our military families had relocated. Your dad cut a dashing figure as the prototypical hardened fighter jock. In later years I learned more of the caring father who was deeply interested in yours and your friends’ lives as we grew up and branched out. I hope your memories of him sustain you and provide solace as you each cope with your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you this Thursday as you lay him to rest.
February 18th, 2009 at 12:33 pm
I came to know Brad through baseball . . by playing for the Padre Fantasy Camp Alumni team. What a great time we had. Brad could play any position, but I especially enjoyed the times when he would catch and I would pitch. He always had a big smile on his face, whether I hit the glove or not, and his smile was radiant when he got a hit! I regret that I couldn’t make the November tournament at Lake Elsinore, but I will cherish the memory of all the games we played together, and the dinners with our wives and our friends the Davis’. I hope that his memory lives long after our short time together, through trying to raise money for cancer research in his name at baseball tournaments, or other means. I am saddened to lose a wonderful friend. We love you Karen.
February 18th, 2009 at 1:31 pm
I too, came to know Brad (Bradford, NOT Bradley as he quietly corrected me) through playing with the Padre Fantasy Camp Alumni team. Brad never cared what position he played. He was, as anyone on our team was, just happy to be IN the game. He was like a kid in a candy store when he was with us between the white lines. Although he couldn’t play in the November tournament, he was out there coaching one of the bases every inning of both games that day. Watching him deal with what he was dealt caused me to admire the man even more. Brad - you’re gone, but you’ll never be forgotten. Karen, you and all of Brad’s family will always be a part of our family. We will miss you brother.
February 18th, 2009 at 2:12 pm
My fellow catching buddy! Brad was always there when the Padre FC Team needed him. His big smile kept the dugout and the game always enjoyable. I am so glad he was able to come to Lake Elsinore in November. All my aches and pains from catching every game went away as soon as I saw the huge smile come into the dugout. Brad was a great teammate and an even greater person. I will really miss you Brad.
February 18th, 2009 at 2:52 pm
Hard to put into words how special Brad is.
He asked about how ones family was, not to show that he cared, he asked BECAUSE he cared! I honestly can not picture Brad without a smile and caring heart. Honestly, I don’t know why he hung around us Padres because he was so much better than us…except Ed.
Brad was a wonderful human being who we be dearly missed. God certainly took the best Padre first.
I miss ya Brad!
February 18th, 2009 at 3:25 pm
brad,Brad, Brad… I am saddened to here we won’t be in the same line up again anytime soon. we did have are day in the sun though. Like so many of us have written, you had a way to touch the heart n soul of those whom you met. I have to admit , I, like so many am a victim of your contagious smile. your endless spirit, and your true meaning of FRIEND,and TEAM MATE. Karren thank you for shareing one of the best humans I ever met. evan if it was only for a few hours at a time. Brad, may we tie up are cleets and walk the fields of fresh cut grass while the sun warms are backs… can’t wait to meet your new team manager, put in a good word for me, I can still hit!! Your friend…DAN
February 18th, 2009 at 6:19 pm
Whenever I think of Brad I just have to smile. I loved his wacky sense of humor and how he could always make everyone laugh. I have missed our international dinners and old game nights but am comforted in knowing Brad is waiting for us at the Celestial Bar ready to make those killer cosmopolitans. I have been blessed by knowing Brad and will always be grateful for the times we all had together. My love and support are with Karen and Brad’s family.
in deepest love and blessings
Lois
February 18th, 2009 at 7:00 pm
I knew Brad when he and I were in Attack Squadron 34 on the USS John F Kennedy. Brad was without a doubt an officer and gentleman. Everyone in the squadron loved Brad’s humor, friendship and hard work. He was always taking the tough flights and did a great job. He was a very easy going aviator that everyone wanted next to him in the cockpit or on your wing. As a naval aviator he exhibited professionalism, leadership and teamwork. The nicest guy I met in the Navy…Lee
February 18th, 2009 at 11:48 pm
Karen, I was terribly saddened to hear of Brad’s passing. I always knew Brad as the calm in any storm. Easy going, ready to listen, and always willing to help. I valued his friendship and counsel from the first day we met and I feel honored to have known him. He will be deeply missed…and always remembered.
February 19th, 2009 at 4:13 am
I am very sorry to hear of Brads passing. I was a squadron mate of Brads in VA 34 in the early 70’s and I remember Brad as a good friend as well as a good shipmate. He was truly a professional Naval officer. I was on Geroge O’Briens and Brads wing in the Med when their plane had difficulties and George and Brad had to eject after their plane lost control and flipped up right overhead on my plane. Thankfully they missed my plane on ejection and we had many stories to tell after that experience. Although I had not seen Brad since the VA 34 days I had hoped to connect with him at a Intruder reunion at some point. My sincere sympathy to his family.
February 19th, 2009 at 5:02 am
Dearest Karen,
We have all lost a very dear friend. We have known Brad and his family since 1967 when we were with VA 145 in Whidbey Island . One of the most joyous moments of our relationship with Brad was meeting you and knowing that Brad had found so much happiness with you and that you were a part of the Betz clan. He was truly one of the warmest people we have ever met and we felt the same way about you as soon as we met you. He always made us feel that he was so happy to see us and the feeling was mutual. Brad was not a person who wore his faith on his sleeve, but he lived his faith in the way that he treated others. We are deeply sorry, Karen, that the two of you could not have had more time together but it is such a comfort to know that you shared a good life. The memories that you do have are treasures that time cannot erase. We pray that through this time of sadness and journey of grief that you will feel comfort in every thought and prayer that we are sending your way.
With love, encouragement, and blessings,
Dave and Marlene
February 19th, 2009 at 7:49 am
“Well Done, thy good and faithful servant…”
Brad’s actions spoke louder than words and that was the subtle power of the Man. He did not have to say much, his actions and how he treated everyone who crossed his path spoke volume after volume.
Without realizing it in the moment, all of our lives were forever changed by each encounter with this man. His quiet disposition, his hearty laughter, his incredible intellect, his infectious hugs, his genuine sincerity, his deep commitment to family and friends, his intense loyalty to our nation, and his class.
At the heart, Brad was a servant. He served his country, he served his wife, he served his children, and he served his friends. He was strong and yet humble.
We will all dearly miss Brad because of all that he represented, and all that he meant to us. We have been left with an incredible gift from Brad, memories. Memories of how to live each day as if it was our last. He left a legacy and he left it for each of us to carry on from where he left off.
So my question to you is, “How did Brad Betz influence you for the better and how can you live the remainder of your days to influence others?”
Brad, we will deeply miss you and we love you so much. Thank you for being the man that you were and what you represented. We all have been so richly blessed to have known you, been able to call you Father, Husband, or Friend.
“Praise GOD from whom all blessings flow, praise Him all creatures here below, praise Him above the Heavenly host. Praise Father, Son, and Holy Ghost. Amen”
February 19th, 2009 at 9:51 am
Brad, Susan and I will think about you often. I know Susan will miss you dearly. Karen, I can’t imagine what you are feeling but now that we are thinking of you.
February 19th, 2009 at 11:40 am
Brad & Sydne,
Oh my! I was saddened to learn this morning about your dear father’s passing. You’re in my thoughts and prayers. - Lori
February 19th, 2009 at 12:30 pm
Brad’s memory will live on every time I meet someone who is genuinely friendly and helpful. I will try better to follow his example. Until we meet again, Brad.
February 19th, 2009 at 5:30 pm
Karen,
Brad was the reason I returned to BAE Systems 12 years ago. He always stayed in touch with me when I left the company and when the travel load of my new job became too much, it was Brad who reminded me of the importance of being available to my then very young family. He then proceeded to tell me about this “Opportunity” that he knew about, I applied and got the job and what an opportunity it was. I had the pleasure of working with Brad in recent months and his level of continuous enthusiasm and willingness to work (even between therapy sessions) serves as such a motivator for me. My husband and I will both miss Brad but know that we will see him again.
February 20th, 2009 at 10:45 am
What joy it was to work and socialize with Brad. He always had a smile and a positive spin on life. I usually make a Ode to folks who retire, so below is one for Brad. Enjoy!
An Ode to Brad Betz
19 February 2009
There once was a Navy man named Brad
Who moved up the ranks and flying a tad,
In the 80’s he decided to retire,
And GD was looking to hire,
And survived the GD thru BAE good time and bad.
Now Brad was an engineer,
Who enthusiastically shared his Navy experience without fear,
He enjoyed mission planning design,
As a software and systems engineer, he was fine,
And was always a team player when a party was near!
There once was a Staffing Manager named Brad,
Who helped engineers be good and slightly bad,
He showed ways to grow their careers,
And could even arrange fun with the peers,
His calming, joyful presence will be missed a large tad!
Brad had his outside interests,
He loved playing baseball with few stops or rests,
He was an avid Padre fan,
And went to several games, not get a tan,
Exercise, love and fun: His secret to looking younger than his guests!
We all loved the dude named Brad,
He was always happy, joyful, never mad,
He enjoyed talking and being with all type of folks,
And loved his family, dogs and laughed at our bad jokes,
Showing us to live life to its fullest and be glad!
Brad you will be dearly missed by all!
February 23rd, 2009 at 1:03 pm
I did not know you well. We would meet occasionally at family functions. You were always such a good listener. Always sensitive to others and kind.
I believe I know you better through your children. They reflect your many positive atributes.
I know your son and my son-in-law Brad the best, and see in him, his father’s caring and loving nature.
Goodby for now and hope to see you again!!!
March 1st, 2009 at 5:09 pm
To the Betz Family,
The bond between flight crews and aircraft maintenance personnel on the roof is especially strong and cannot be otherwise when battle hardened veterans trust their aircraft and lives to sailors barely old enough to drive the family car. It is a bond one must experience to understand.
For those of us young sailors known as Troubleshooters that pushed and launched pilots and B/Ns off the pointy end, we shared a bond greater than most.
As a member of the Intruder Association I was truly saddened to learn that Mr Betz made the final cut.
I served with him in VA/34 aboard USS John F Kennedy CV-67 CVW1 from 1975 to 1979.
I strapped him in on many occasions, kicked the tires with him more times than I can count, carried his gear to the aircraft and safety checked and launched his plane dozens of times in some of the most horrible weather imaginable.
It is said that an officer wears his rank on his shoulders as he bears unmatched responsibility in time of conflict, while enlisted men wear their rank on their sleeve as they are the muscle, and somewhere in between is where mutual admiration and respect for each other are earned.
We troubleshooters cared not for how many degrees from what universities a pilot or B/N had. As anyone that has performed that ballet on that stage known as a flight deck will tell you it all came down to credibility and respect, not expected because of rank but earned and not so readily.
I wish you all to know that well after these many years, I still have many fond memories of Mr. Betz. He always had a smile for us, and always had praise for those of us that spent may hours in a very grueling, dangerous and inhospitable atmosphere. But more than anything else he had credibility, and our utmost respect , not just as a Naval Officer but as a man. For his charges to admire and respect him that much is testimony to his character, and you must take me at my word, he was one of the best.
Having known Mr. Betz personally many years ago, and sharing that aforementioned bond, I know there is a hole in the world. I reach across the country from my home outside of Boston, Ma with heart felt condolences.
Sincerely
Robert J. Ascolillo, Jr. AE2 , USNR
Line Division Troubeshooter and Aircraft Final Checker
Attack Squadron 34 1975-79
March 3rd, 2009 at 10:18 pm
No words of wisdom, only love and friendship (1971) for Brad and his faimly. Brad had a great sence of humor and an infectous smile…..he always made you feel happy! We have spent so much time reflecting on the days spent with Brad…..basketball with VA-34, traveling in Europe,a boat trip to the British Virgins Islands, and trips to our cabin in Oregon where Brad and Ron had their karaoke sessions, playing bridge and evening boat rides on the lake. To the Betz children…..no bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. May you each find peace in knowing that your father “won” is prize with the Lord. Blessings, Sally and Ron
March 6th, 2009 at 9:26 am
I know of noone who had a greater influence in my life, outside of family, than Brad. He was everything you could ask for in a friend–honest, fun-loving, care-free, happy! I remember the time he picked me up to go with him to an “undisclosed” destination. He had a large satchel, secured with a lock, around his wrist. He could not open nor remove it until he reached this destination where someone had a key to remove it. It was straight out of the best spy movie you could imagine. But to Brad, it was all in a day’s work. I will miss him!
May 20th, 2009 at 11:17 am
Dear Brad,
Just found out today you were in a better place after enduring the pains of your illness. You left all of us in a better place for having known you. Since I left San Diego in March of 2008, I have prayed for you, Karen and your friends and family. I bet your service was full of love and you shone down on those present. I remember the first day I met you at GDE/BAE in 1997. I was in Labor Accounting. My job was to work with supervisors and to collect the time cards each week to verify each employee’s hours. You (Mr. Supervisor) always greeted me with a smile and always had kind words. I was happy to be sitting on the 6th floor near you when I joined the ranks of the engineering dept. You had an uplifting way about you that spilled out to those around. I remember groups of folks meeting up at the E-Bar after work every once in a while. It’s where I got to know you socially. You always empressed me as a kind and gentle soul. After looking at the pictures and reading some of the notes I see and hear that I am not alone in thinking so.
Dearest Karen,
Your love for Brad and his for you was so evident and so wonderful to see. It is something you have in your heart for eternity. I reach across the miles from NH to CA to give you hugs. Please know I think of you often.
June 1st, 2009 at 8:24 am
Happy Birthday Brad !!!
June 5th, 2009 at 11:10 am
BBB,
I had a Marg just for you on your Birhday and always will.
Miss you
June 29th, 2009 at 11:43 am
Dear Betz Family,
Just found out that Brad had passed from this earth into the presence of his Heavenly Father and wanted you to know how truly generous he was. My wife, Lisa (formerly Parham), first met him as she was raising her financial support to be a missionary in Venezeula. Brad joyfully contributed to her ministry and then continued when we got married and she joined me with Athletes in Action. He allowed us to stay in the ministry full time sharing the love and forgiveness of Jesus Christ here in the US and many other countries.
He was always so positive when I spoke with him and always so generous. We thank God for the legacy that he left us and the many lives touched because of his support!
Brad lived out this verse in the Bible written by Paul so many years ago: “Christ shall even now, as always, be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death. For to me, to live is Christ, and to die is gain.” Philippians 1:20b-21
God’s blessings and care on you,
Ray Caldwell
February 2nd, 2010 at 9:38 pm
Bradford,
I cannot believe that a year has passed since you started your next journey. I still have to remind myself that you will not be there at the door to great me when I arrive home with a welcoming smile, a big hug and sometimes a cosmo.
I miss you so much and wish I had that one more moment to tell you how much I love you and how thankful I am to have had you in my life. You were my friend, my love, my soul mate and you will be in my heart forever BBB.
Love you baby,
K
February 25th, 2010 at 8:56 am
Wow, seems like now we were talking about the Padres and getting ready for the new season about now. I know your in a much better place. Since you have left, the Padres were sold, traded Jake and half the team for rookies. Looks like a good year for them Dodgers.
Miss you Brad!
xoxx
June 1st, 2010 at 4:20 am
Today is your birthday. The pain of missing you is (still) chronic and overwhelming.
June 1st, 2010 at 8:04 pm
Happy birthday Bradford! I wish you were here to toast on your 68th year. I miss you baby.
August 3rd, 2010 at 4:16 pm
Brad,
Your Padres are doing great!!! Miss you always
September 15th, 2010 at 8:08 am
Brad’s character meant that a 2-hour encounter in 1976 would have me curious about reaching him nearly 35 years later. He was patient and warm to this adolescent who met him at the Champaign, IL airport where he had flown his A-6 with Gary Ruzeau. Within minutes he had me ready to forget about flying a fighter someday and being ready to be an NFO on an A-6. A couple of times we exchanged letters, and in tribute to the box of cookies I sent him and his crony on the Kennedy, he sent me a Blues Blaster’s patch that I have to this day. I am glad that I got to meet him for that little time. God Bless.
February 3rd, 2011 at 11:12 pm
Dear Dad,
You are greatly missed! Little Joseph had his very first Little League T-Ball practice yesterday. You would be proud the way he swings the bat. And he will be a faster runner than I ever was. The girls are growing up fast. Austin is in Air Force boot camp right now and of course Noah just turned 19 years old 3 days ago. Dad, I want you to know that your Legacy lives on. The kind, gentle, and affectionate man you were transcends through me to my children. I know they feel loved and secure because the way you treated me is what they are seeing in me and experiencing for themselves. So often I wish I had your listening ear. You were always ready to listen. Simply put – you were the most amazing Dad! The only little bit of comfort I have is that I stand on the promises of the Word of God that I will see you in Heaven one day. Sylvia misses you, too! Work is going well…got another promotion. Thank the Lord! Life is precious and life is short. It has been said that children are the only earthly treasure you can take to Heaven. I hope and pray that I can make impact on my kids as you did on yours. Bye for now….Love you and miss you so much, Bruce.
February 3rd, 2012 at 10:22 pm
Hello Dad!
Wow! Another year has flown by. I think of you so often. Of course with today being the 3rd anniversary of your passing, you are heavy on my heart. I often see that gentle smile of yours. That easy going way about you. You had that gift of being able to talk to anyone and putting them at ease. Your sense of humor and your wit is certainly missed. Thanks Dad for being the Dad who was one of my very best friends on earth. I sometimes wonder if we will be able to play catch in Heaven. I sure miss playing ball with you. It makes it all the more special to play ball with my kids. Well, once again, know that you are dearly missed. I love you so much! Bruce